Imagine creating a Valentine’s Day that is not only loving and lustful, but sensual, exciting and memorable.
There are so many ways you can spend your Valentine’s day – being with your lover, partner, husband and if single, with a friend. It’s about loving and receiving love, being confident and comfortable with your own body and self. This alone can be the biggest ‘turn on’. You know feelings you have with or towards your partner vary all the time. You also know, that if and when you choose, that you can ignite any love relationship when there is flame.
Let’s take a moment and imagine …. imagine in your mind your partner bringing you a dozen roses , perhaps your favorite perfume or jewelry… then as he showers you with passionate kisses, you become aware of Enigma playing in the background. Perhaps moments later in a more comfortable setting, gently holding you and blind folding you. Now your mind starts going to all places as to what is to happen next. Asking you to part your lips, having melted chocolate smeared all around your lips – then the taste of strawberries as you are being fed one at a time… and moments later asking you to swallow and as you do, your palate tingles as you take a sip of the bubbly Cristal Champagne. Hummm – can you hear the music, even the fizzle of the faint bubbles. How about the taste of strawberries at the tip of your tongue and the smell of roses. Become aware of how your skin would feel of the silky eye patch covering your eyes. Have I awakened you to your imagination and senses yet?!
You see – the way to savor all this is to allow yourself to be in the moment. To open your inner mind, awaken your senses to feel and enjoy your own feelings and how your body responds. Let go and be in the moment to what your heart and senses feel.
Let go of judgment or what is happening in the kitchen, the kids, the noise next door or worse – what you are going to do or say afterwards. Feeling loved is how you feel loved and how you respond. This is not about your partner but the loving way your partner can help you feel loved. These words and images may now be embedded in your mind for a long time… perhaps for hours or throughout the day.
When you choose honesty, loving, vulnerability and openness, while respecting yourself and the person you are with – passionate and loving feelings will percolate from the inside out. Not only will it not evaporate – but can be playful and melt yours and your partners heart, igniting the loving flame that will keep the two of you warm for much longer time. Do you now realize how powerful your mind and imagination can be? Hypnosis and guided visualization can help you create, or help you overcome and let go of feelings, habits or behavior you no longer wish to keep. What the conscious mind can perceive – the subconscious mind can conceive. What you need more than any shade of gray, is clarity for what you have within!
My grandmother would say: “If you keep the flame in the bedroom lit, it’ll light up the entire house”. May your Valentine’s day or night, be as romantic and memorable you wish it to be. ~ Liza
